I have received many thoughtful gifts from friends and family since Greg died. Some people live close enough to offer their help and care in person. For others who live farther away, their love has been expressed through thoughtful cards, letters, and gifts.
Below is a list that I hope will help you show support and care well for the widows that you love.
Gifts that cost money
Flowers (not just for the funeral)
Donating to a special cause in honor of the deceased loved one
Gift cards for coffee/ restaurants/ gas stations/ grocery stores
Cozy blankets
Candles or lotions with relaxing scents
Necklace with initials of deceased loved one
Bottle of Tears beautiful keepsakes and gifts
Preserved flowers from funeral made in resin object (example)
Pictures books of deceased loved one
Healthy (and some not so healthy) snacks (kid and adult friendly)
Toys, activities, or stuffed animals for kids
Grief picture books for kids (my favorite are listed here)
Memberships that the family can use for quality time together: botanical garden, zoo, etc.
Keepsake box for saving precious items
Gift certificate for a massage
Gift certificate for a manicure/pedicure
Coffee or Tea
Gifts that don't cost money
Care crates from Songs in the Night
Widow care support from Perspective Ministries
Letters or cards with memories of the one who has died - for the spouse
Letters with memories of the one who has died - for the children
Watching children for the grieving parent
Setting up a meal train
Sending a text to check in and let the grieving person know you are thinking of them
Sending a text on each one-month anniversary
Practical household help such as: shoveling snow, raking leaves, mowing yard, helping with minor repairs
Sharing pictures or videos of the one who has died that the surviving family members may not have copies of
Include children in activities your family is doing
Invite the family over for dinner once a month
